The idea of a “body count” – the number of sexual partners a person has had – is one that is often discussed in popular culture, particularly when it comes to men. However, the idea that women’s sexual histories are fair game for discussion is not only unfair, but it is also completely disgusting and needs to stop.

It is so common that women are flat-out refusing to answer the question. Some women even completely refuse to even speak to a man who asks the question. Why?

Because asking a woman about her “body count” is invasive, inappropriate, and ultimately none of your business. It implies that a woman’s worth is tied to her sexual history and that her value as a person or a partner is somehow diminished by the number of sexual partners she has had. This is both unfair and untrue.

Furthermore, asking about a woman’s “body count” can be incredibly damaging to her self-esteem and mental health. Women who have had multiple sexual partners may feel ashamed or embarrassed about their sexual history and may feel that they are being judged or stigmatized by others. This can lead to feelings of anxiety, depression, and even shame, which is completely unfair and unnecessary.

Additionally, the idea that women’s sexual histories are open for discussion is deeply rooted in sexism and misogyny. Men are often celebrated for their sexual conquests, while women who have had multiple partners are often shamed or stigmatized. This double standard is not only unfair, but it is also damaging to women’s mental health and well-being.

Women’s sexual histories are not open for discussion, and implying that their worth is tied to the number of sexual partners they have had is both unfair and untrue. It is important that we work to break down these sexist and misogynistic attitudes, and that we begin to treat women with the respect and dignity that they deserve.